GOAL KO TOL

Hi friends,

Hope you had a lovely Christmas. Today we will be talking about success. How graphology helps us to achieve it. I am sure you all will agree with me, that to be successful in any field, the first and foremost criterion is setting a goal. Goal levels appear to be particularly relevant in a society like ours in which the pressure of achieving it is too much and feelings of success and failure are crucial. A person’s goal is a basic component of his self-image.

Few people set their goals a little higher than they are sure of attaining. Some, due to failures in young age set unrealistically low goals for themselves throughout life. For some a history of repeated success leads to an increased goal level; the more we accomplish the higher our goals. Whereas in some, continued disappointments cause the individual either to set his goal so low that success is guaranteed, or so high that his inability to achieve them does not produce a feeling of failure.

Now once we set our goals we have to start working on our goals and also see to it that we reach the finishing line with them. All this can be analysed through Graphology.

Friends, today I invite you to send me your latest handwriting sample in 4-5 lines on my what's app or email. I will analyse it and let you know if you set your goals high, medium or low and how do you go about achieving them. No therapy will be given. Also no other criteria’s will be analysed.

The only criteria is that in the comments section below, you will have to write your name and give a thumps up, so that I can keep a track of whom all I have to reply. Do use this opportunity to see whether you really set your goals as you wish to.

My what's app No. is 9987769375

My email address is. shilpsg9@gmail.com

I will not be able to analyse your handwriting if you do not put your comment below.

Wish you all a very Happy and Prosperous New Year!

Know thy employees…

Hello everyone,

How’s life? I am aware; you all must be busy preparing for the upcoming festival and New Year celebration. But I know you will surely take out some time to read this. I remember once my friend told me, that the company where he applied had asked for his handwriting sample. My friend seemed irritated; he was like, “Who asks for handwriting when everything is online?” He had applied for a job abroad. But this is exactly what International Companies do. One has to understand, a bad hire can be detrimental for the particular post, can incur high monetary cost and can also have negative impact on the company’s growth. Thus, Recruiters, HR Department and Managers are finding different ways to analyse a candidate.

Resumes, Cover letters and Interviews are important tools in assessing if the person is right for the post, but it does not reveal the personality of the candidate and here graphology plays a significant role. I remember giving a written test when I had applied for my first job. It works in two ways, knowing the candidates technical knowledge and analyzing his/ her handwriting. If a candidate has applied for a sales job and his/ her handwriting seems disconnected, do you think he will be able to increase sales? I am sure you will agree that at times some candidates look great in an interview, but they seem totally different when they come on board.

Imagine a jewelry showroom or a bank hiring an employee; let’s think of parents of toddlers hiring nannies for their children. How can they find out that the hired person is trustworthy? Can’t a single step of handwriting analysis along with other processes of selection save a lot of agony in future? In fact along with bigger companies, the SMEs should include this practice in their recruiting system. It will save them a lot of time, money and energy in getting the right candidate.

A lot of people come to me asking if only signature analysis of the candidate would help. My answer is NO. To understand a person fully, signature as well as handwriting analysis is important. So friends, even if you have a small staff, you can get positive output from them by analyzing and if needed changing the handwriting traits in them.

Sayonara till my next blog.

Finding the calm in the chaos 2

 Hi friends,

I still remember my school days. Some kids were very sincere; we called them book worms. Some very shy, I had not heard them talking at all in the class for all those years. Some were very aggressive and notorious and some a blend of all. I wonder, what must be their handwriting traits then and now? As I had said before, we were always told to have a good handwriting. But handwriting is just not restricted to mere legibility or looks; it is much more than that. A child with good handwriting can have many wrong personality traits and the one with bad handwriting might have some good traits hidden in them.

Friends, as per graphology, no handwriting is good or bad. It’s the traits in handwriting reflected out about the person, which justifies if the handwriting is really good or improvement in it is needed. Every stroke, letters, size, pressure, margin, baseline, slant, zones and spaces between letters, words and lines are analysed to reveal about personality. Children copy their parents or a teacher with good handwriting or else as they grow they copy writing traits from a stranger. So if a child copies handwriting of the person they admire, they start losing their original personality.

I met a female few days back who had Felon’s claw in her handwriting. She said, she had seen it and liked it so much, that she incorporated it in her handwriting. It was so prominent in her writing and signature that my immediate reaction was to tell her to remove it instantaneously.

It is a backward hooking stroke that can appear both in print or script writing and in letters like A, y, g, j etc. You can notice it in anyone’s handwriting, few having it unconsciously and few acquiring it because it looks good. It often appears in the writing of those who feel they have something to hide. The ‘good’ kid isn’t so ‘good’ anymore. We will discuss Felon’s claw in details later. What I want to highlight is, as parents and teachers we try to teach the kids right alphabets. But as they grow, they learn and add their own changes in their handwriting out of their own mind or by imitating others. With this the changes in personality also start taking place.

We find kids lacking in concentration, confidence and communication skills as they are unable to express themselves or lack interest on a daily basis. Rebellious nature is also observed in some kids. Whatever their personality, it can be identified and wrong traits corrected. The only action, you as a parent have to take is to get your child’s handwriting analysed by a graphologist.

Felon's claw is shown here. See you till my next post.