I am not okay....

Hi friends,

It’s been long since I have written a blog. I felt that lock down would give me a lot of time to write blogs, but things were completely opposite. Day starts with work and ends with work. In fact, today I was forced to write this. I read an article today from Times of India where a renowned Graphologist has analysed SSR’s handwriting after his tragic end. After reading it, the only thought I had was what if this Graphologist could have had a chance to meet SSR in the early stages of his anxiety or depression.

Friends, lots have been spoken and will be debated for long, till it will cease naturally, I do not intend to go in that direction. The person who ended his life is not waiting for any justice or any ones answers, but he and many others like him who follow this path have made us think, why this happen and can it really be stopped? I know someone who is having a depressed family member. That friend of mine is standing rock solid with the patient. It is indeed not at all easy to manage in such a situation. Ask those who have a son or daughter going through stress, anxiety and depression at such a young age?

So, what can we do? They say one should listen to them. But are those in depression willing to talk it out? What we can only do is try to identify these signs early and that is the only time they can share their thoughts. In graphology, one can see the negative traits in a person’s handwriting and also suicidal tendencies to some extent can be identified. But what’s the use of finding them, when the disorder is in the clinical stage? We can help kids in their early stage of stress. I have seen that when the child crosses the age of 15, he/ she feels he/ she is strong enough to manage his/ her own life and does not need any ones help. So we have to make the wrongs right, in the kids below 15. Friends, if each one of us can stop even one kid from going in that direction, it will be life’s purpose served. Let us try and help them from an early age. Let us bring the change, by making small changes around us.

Let them not say, ‘I am not okay, I am just too good at pretending I am.’ Let them just say, “I am not okay”……          

EN-SAMPLE THE HANDWRITING SAMPLES

SAMPLE 1

SAMPLE 2

                                                                                          

Hey friends,

Today will actually see what the above sample writings tell about the persons. Let us start with Sample 1. You can see that the writer has written on ruled page, thus certain parameters cannot be assessed.

Sample 1 analysis:

The writer is friendly, outgoing and open minded person. He is reliable as a friend. His writing tells, that he is detail oriented and introvert. He is extremely romantic. But he is a selective listener. He is very impulsive, has short temper and loses patience easily. This person has difference of opinion with his mother and thus is always in conflict with her. He is also secretive in nature. Frustration level is high. Is egoistic. He is a day dreamer and has poor goals. He has heart issues and also acidity and stomach related problems. He seems to be missing on a lot of opportunities.

Sample 2 analysis:

This writer is negative in general. He has met with defeat, disillusionment or constant disappointment in life. Though he is trying to show some courage. He is head over heart. He shows controlled emotions and lack of sympathy. Pulling up to the left indicates he unconsciously withdraws from what he is writing. He seems nervous and worried. The writer looks detached, less connected with people. He is happy living in the past. He sets easily achievable goals. He is good at planning, but not well at execution.

This is how analysis is done, specifically to understand the hidden personality traits and then to use graphotherapy to change the unwanted ones. This is just a crux. Detailed analysis of all the parameters is done when approached with.

Hope you all have a safe and constructive time in this lock down.
For any inquiry regarding graphology and tarot do ping me.

WHAT’S YOUR BASELINE

Hey friends, I am communicating with you all after a long time and it feels nice to write to you again. Well, we all know that if we don’t set a BASELINE for what we should accept in life, we will find it easier to slip into the quality of life that’s far below what we deserve. Hence, there has to be a baseline for happiness, leadership, values and our aspirations and so on. Similarly we have to have a baseline in handwriting.


My clients always freak out when I tell them to write something on a blank page and that too nearly two pages. There first question is, "Can’t we use ruled pages?" But then, how will I check the baseline? This baseline is the imaginary line on which we write on a plain page. Now why is the baseline so important? Because it reveals about, our attitude in reaching our goals, the kind of mental energy we apply to our life situations and our general moods. It just works on the concept of up verses down.


As graphologists, in a handwriting sample we can analyse upto 12 types of baseline. Which are they? Let me tell you.

• Stable or straight baseline
• Cautious baseline
• Healthy ascending baseline
• The quitter baseline
• Convex baseline- the classical quitter baseline
• Hysterical baseline
• Depressive descending baseline
• Crashing baseline
• Sudden sinking baseline
• Concave baseline- finally making up baseline
• Moody baseline 
• Sociopathic baseline

From the names you must have got the idea what each baseline is suggesting. Still you can do an exercise. Write one page matter on a blank page and try to analyse where the baseline of your handwriting stands. And if you genuinely want to analyse the baseline of your handwriting and your personality traits, then I am just a phone call, what Sapp and email away.


Wish you all a very Happy Holi and Rang Panchami full of vibrant colours and joy!

PART 2 - What is the Nature of Your Signature?

Hi all,

Let’s continue from last time. If you have a precise, very legible signature, it is a sign of  straight-forwardness. A signature is legible when the name and last name that appear are easy to recognize. This means that you are a person with clear objectives, who is balanced, who has a sense of responsibility and duty and who feels identified with himself. A signature is partially-illegible when it is hard to read, but each stroke may be identified with a letter. These kinds of signatures are associated to impatience and anxiety.

According to handwriting analysis, people who sign their names with certain illegibility have a propensity to withhold facts and restrain inner feelings. That’s not to say they’re necessarily being dishonest by concealing them. Such signatures can only tell you that they want to hide. What they want to mask (maybe insecurities, traumatic experiences etc.) is known from their handwriting, and not just signature alone.

In short, illegible signature reflects an inclination to remain mysterious, impenetrable and enigmatic, but the reason behind the tendency can be both malicious and/ or benevolent. One must check all aspects of handwriting before arriving at conclusions.

Let’s see what the size of our Signature tell us.

1. If someone has a Very Big Signature, maybe 4-5 times the size of the handwriting, then such writer has feelings of grandeur and will never get off from this place. Such people know nothing of humility as they are too arrogant.

2. If a writer’s signature size is Fairly Big, maybe twice or thrice the size of the handwriting; then this writer comes across as a confident person. He cannot be pushed around in the public place.

3. If the signature size is the same as the handwriting, then it shows that the writer does not believe in putting any drama in the public. He is comfortable in his skin. He is; what you see is what you get.

4. The writers with Small Signature have low self-confidence. They rarely feel comfortable in public and thus like to stay low profile.

Where does your signature stand? Does it align with what your goals are set for your life? Do think about it.

To book an appointment call me on 9987769375/ 9820769375 or email me on shilpsg9@gmail.com

Have a great week!

See you all till we meet again.     

PART 1 - What is the Nature of Your Signature?

Hello everyone,

Wish you all a very happy and prosperous New Year! May this 2020 help you live your life to the fullest!

Today I am going to talk about Signature. Friends, signature is our conscious form of handwriting. We decide how we want our signature to be like and work on it. This is then accepted as representation of our self at various important places like banks and on documents like Aadhar Card, Pan Card and Passport etc. It also represents how we want others to see us. It states, “See, this is who I am.” Though Signature should not be analysed on its own, let’s dig a bit deeper to understand Signature Analysis.

The first point we would cover today is Legible, Illegible or Partially Illegible Signature.

People with a legible signature would like the world to know who they are. They are completely open minded. Such a writer though tries to prevent himself from verbally expressing what is on his mind, will express it all through facial expressions. Those who know me can understand this😊. A legible writer cannot hide his good or bad side for long time.

People with illegible signature will not want their identity to be disclosed. They like to maintain an aura of secrecy around their personality. They are least bothered if anyone is able to read their signature or not. The reason why they project themselves mysterious can be found in their handwriting.

Those with partially illegible handwriting are somewhat like the illegible writers. They may not tell you the whole story. They will invariably leave out some important facts. They will only disclose what they feel publicizing. 

Which category do you fit in? Have you ever thought about this? This is just a tip of the iceberg in Handwriting and Signature Analysis. There are infinite things which let a Graphologist study a personality of an individual and help him change few traits for his betterment.

To book an appointment call me on 9987769375/ 9820769375 or email me on shilpsg9@gmail.com

Have a Rocking weekend!

Sayonara till we meet again.     

GOAL KO TOL

Hi friends,

Hope you had a lovely Christmas. Today we will be talking about success. How graphology helps us to achieve it. I am sure you all will agree with me, that to be successful in any field, the first and foremost criterion is setting a goal. Goal levels appear to be particularly relevant in a society like ours in which the pressure of achieving it is too much and feelings of success and failure are crucial. A person’s goal is a basic component of his self-image.

Few people set their goals a little higher than they are sure of attaining. Some, due to failures in young age set unrealistically low goals for themselves throughout life. For some a history of repeated success leads to an increased goal level; the more we accomplish the higher our goals. Whereas in some, continued disappointments cause the individual either to set his goal so low that success is guaranteed, or so high that his inability to achieve them does not produce a feeling of failure.

Now once we set our goals we have to start working on our goals and also see to it that we reach the finishing line with them. All this can be analysed through Graphology.

Friends, today I invite you to send me your latest handwriting sample in 4-5 lines on my what's app or email. I will analyse it and let you know if you set your goals high, medium or low and how do you go about achieving them. No therapy will be given. Also no other criteria’s will be analysed.

The only criteria is that in the comments section below, you will have to write your name and give a thumps up, so that I can keep a track of whom all I have to reply. Do use this opportunity to see whether you really set your goals as you wish to.

My what's app No. is 9987769375

My email address is. shilpsg9@gmail.com

I will not be able to analyse your handwriting if you do not put your comment below.

Wish you all a very Happy and Prosperous New Year!

Know thy employees…

Hello everyone,

How’s life? I am aware; you all must be busy preparing for the upcoming festival and New Year celebration. But I know you will surely take out some time to read this. I remember once my friend told me, that the company where he applied had asked for his handwriting sample. My friend seemed irritated; he was like, “Who asks for handwriting when everything is online?” He had applied for a job abroad. But this is exactly what International Companies do. One has to understand, a bad hire can be detrimental for the particular post, can incur high monetary cost and can also have negative impact on the company’s growth. Thus, Recruiters, HR Department and Managers are finding different ways to analyse a candidate.

Resumes, Cover letters and Interviews are important tools in assessing if the person is right for the post, but it does not reveal the personality of the candidate and here graphology plays a significant role. I remember giving a written test when I had applied for my first job. It works in two ways, knowing the candidates technical knowledge and analyzing his/ her handwriting. If a candidate has applied for a sales job and his/ her handwriting seems disconnected, do you think he will be able to increase sales? I am sure you will agree that at times some candidates look great in an interview, but they seem totally different when they come on board.

Imagine a jewelry showroom or a bank hiring an employee; let’s think of parents of toddlers hiring nannies for their children. How can they find out that the hired person is trustworthy? Can’t a single step of handwriting analysis along with other processes of selection save a lot of agony in future? In fact along with bigger companies, the SMEs should include this practice in their recruiting system. It will save them a lot of time, money and energy in getting the right candidate.

A lot of people come to me asking if only signature analysis of the candidate would help. My answer is NO. To understand a person fully, signature as well as handwriting analysis is important. So friends, even if you have a small staff, you can get positive output from them by analyzing and if needed changing the handwriting traits in them.

Sayonara till my next blog.